You are not a fail.

[KodiHivaer]

Man Dash, you certainly seem to be good at making friends. But more importantly on topic. I think that no one should ever judge another player besides themselves, if you have certain standards for how you want to have content run make a PF or join up with friends or FC mates.

Additionally, no one knows what kind of specs another player has. I know sometimes in dungeons I get lag spikes or delays because I play on a fail PS3, sometimes it hits, and sometimes it doesn't. That being said, sometimes my Cleric Stance de-activates correctly, and others I find myself ending up Cure 2 crit'ing for 1k and wondering what the heck is going on before seeing that red and black icon on my status bar. So, does that mean I don't know how to DPS during dungeons? Not at all, but if I'm not comfortable doing it I won't do it considering that... If you're really trying to do a Speed Run, wiping because the healer can't DPS and heal takes a lot longer then a healer who strictly heals... So keep that in mind when you're trying to consider that the healer is wasting your time or not doing enough by not DPSing during a SR.