there's a lot of sensitive people in this game

[Jim_Berry]

When someone says "holy?" to mean, I read it as, "Help with dps instead of standing there!".

The thing is, most healers know what they can and can't manage/handle. Some can't multitask, some feel as though their job is only to heal. As a WHM myself, unless it's part of the boss' strategy, I touch nothing, I click nothing. If I Holy, it's with Swiftcast. If I wanted to dps, I'd join as BRD or DRG.

When I was tanking a dungeon, we had a SCH going on and on how our dps stunk. He claimed to be an iLv120 dps main. He tried to kick the MNK who caved and told him to stfu.

I'm the type to let people play how they are comfortable with. If it's a dungeon, it's not always necessary for me to rush the run if the group isn't pushing it.

[lxChrisxl]

When someone says "holy?" to mean, I read it as, "Help with dps instead of standing there!".

that's can be a bit of problem and i'm guessing most peoples problem right there. they take what others have said and put a meaning behind it they think is right and run with it even with no backing proof. that can cause conflict where there wouldn't have been any. when i said "holy?". i meant it as i have foe's up if you didn't see(don't read that in a condescending voice lol) and holy would help speed this up a bit. all they had to do was say no or anything along that lines and i would have replied some form of "ok :]" and left it at that.