there's a lot of sensitive people in this game

[Stihllodeing]

I just don't like oversensitive people who suck...snip...

I don't either, but I don't like overly emotional pros either. I guess at first glance, I figured there wasn't anything to gain from the op's question. As I reflect on it though, I think there's something that could be addressed. Let's look at alllll the things Chris could've said:

"How about Holy dude, I mean c'mon"
"Holy any day lol"
"You should really spend some of the mana to increase your group effectiveness" <--been on the tip of my tongue many times
"Are you just going to use cure 1?" <--this is what I say instead
"#@%& %#$@ holy noob" <--quickly becoming an mmo standard.

In hindsight and IF the op is telling the truth (no offense dude) should they have been kicked? Are the people who kicked him in violation?

[lxChrisxl]

In hindsight and IF the op is telling the truth (no offense dude) should they have been kicked? Are the people who kicked him in violation?

hahaha no offense taken. it is the internet "no pic no proof". i was going to provide a picture for giggles since i never log but i got 90k'd earlier D:
i do how ever have a bard friend that i got after that run. she actually voted to kick the tank after i joined back lol

[LionKing]

"How about Holy dude, I mean c'mon"
"Holy any day lol"
"You should really spend some of the mana to increase your group effectiveness" <--been on the tip of my tongue many times
"Are you just going to use cure 1?" <--this is what I say instead
"#@%& %#$@ holy noob" <--quickly becoming an mmo standard.

If this whole conversation was the truth, then in my perspective, OP did indeed deserve a kick for Harassment. It is a grey area for such thing, I admit. But the whole conversation really shows that someone in the party did try to push the DPS duty onto the Healer. And many people dislike it, mainly, because they are playing Healer to Heal, not to DPS. If they do indeed want to DPS, they have gone to play DPS already. And someone even question their ability as HEALER. It is just rude and demanding no matter how you look at that conversation.

Instead the whole conversation could be:

If it is possible, we would like to have some Holy thrown around. It helps contributing with DPS and more fun that way.

Then stop at that, the rest, whether they want to do it or not is up to them. No remind, no pushing, no questioning.

[lxChrisxl]

If this whole conversation was the truth

line before that says "the things chris could've said". :b