PLZ HELP I am being bullied/harassed non stop by another player and GMs resolved it

[Twivana]

Your friend needs to call the police immediately! This is no longer cyber stalking or harassment, this is a threat of violence. Your friend needs to be provided with any detailed information about this individual you or anyone else can provide, and report a threat of violence to his/her local police department. You should realize by now, in this day, that with just a name or address, a criminal investigator (like the ones in our department) can get every piece of detail about this individual and have a restraining order served on him from across the country. He could also be arrested too. Your friend could very well be in danger and neither of you should take this lightly.

I let my friend know and posted exactly what you said in our server group. Thank you ma'm/sir :] You have been most helpful.

[Ceodore]

Sir, and it's thanks enough to know you and your friend might take action.

[Yumi_umi]

Probs the easiest way is to just spend the $$$ and get a name change & fantasia.
He won't know and you'll be safe unless someone rats u out lol.
Stalkers have their ways...
But u kinda had this coming if you link ur out of game social profile with ur in game one.

[Riviere]

Probs the easiest way is to just spend the $$$ and get a name change & fantasia.
He won't know and you'll be safe unless someone rats u out lol.
Stalkers have their ways...
But u kinda had this coming if you link ur out of game social profile with ur in game one.

No amount of fantasia or name changes can help with this issue. You can change your name, but your ID remains the same. You can follow a Lodestone link of a previous search of a person and it'll update you with the new name and server (If it applies). You can also google someone by their old name and it'll give you links to the new lodestone profile name.

[Twivana]

Probs the easiest way is to just spend the $$$ and get a name change & fantasia.
He won't know and you'll be safe unless someone rats u out lol.
Stalkers have their ways...
But u kinda had this coming if you link ur out of game social profile with ur in game one.

I didn't link anything. We wanted to come together as a server to get to know each regardless of FC, GC, and Linkshells. I really love my server. They know that I am always helping ppl when I can. Changing my name and what my char looks like will not resolve anything. :/

[Yumi_umi]

No amount of fantasia or name changes can help with this issue. You can change your name, but your ID remains the same. You can follow a Lodestone link of a previous search of a person and it'll update you with the new name and server (If it applies). You can also google someone by their old name and it'll give you links to the new lodestone profile name.

Damnnnnn didn't know that
But u seem to know awfully a lot about how to stalk someone * shifts eye *
Jk lol
Then just just df/ go do instances so they can't see you and you can't see their spam lol
I had this kinda happen to me before and i got stalked on the forums and in game by a few ppl on my server.
Things got heated and we ended up getting forum banned for a while.
But all in all i learned just let them talk and they'll eventually die down cuz ain't no one got time to do tht 24/7 11 months a year.

[Riviere]

Damnnnnn didn't know that
But u seem to know awfully a lot about how to stalk someone * shifts eye *

You are about to discover a truth you may not like. >

No but in all seriousness, I found out after I followed my own link after I changed server and name and it sent me to my new profile.

[Dererk]

This isn't something to laugh about and to all those going lol shame on you this is supposed to be a safe environment well some what to have fun.

The fact that this is going on out of the game is disgusting the GM are supposed to protect agents this kind of thing . I'm sure since its continuing off line there's something that can be done. How'd this even start.

[Ceodore]

But u kinda had this coming if you did such and such thing.

Wow, I've heard this line before too many times. No one is to be blamed for being a victim. You are right that you should be careful with your personal information, but a victim, even when they do something that might put them in danger, is still a victim. An upstanding member of society wouldn't take advantage of having access to knowledge, just as I don't take advantage of the thousands of social security card numbers, driver's licenses, and criminal histories that I handle.

This isn't something to laugh about and to all those going lol shame on you this is supposed to be a safe environment well some what to have fun.

The fact that this is going on out of the game is disgusting the GM are supposed to protect agents this kind of thing . I'm sure since its continuing off line there's something that can be done. How'd this even start.

The fact is, the GMs aren't responsible for what happens outside of their game and any system out of their control. Facebook is not under the control of SE, and thus Facebook is generally contacted by police departments like the one I work for (generally by a sergeant investigator with a warrant for information) to handle things like this. So yeah, the GMs aren't going to have any power to protect her when this has already progressed to other forms and avenues of cyber stalking and harassment. That's where we (police departments) come in.

[Riviere]

This isn't something to laugh about and to all those going lol shame on you this is supposed to be a safe environment well some what to have fun.

The fact that this is going on out of the game is disgusting the GM are supposed to protect agents this kind of thing . I'm sure since its continuing off line there's something that can be done. How'd this even start.

I sure hope the GM gives a permanent ban to this person. A warning or a temporary ban isn't enough for this kind of harassment.