@Op, don't think i'm being ass or moaning at you but it sounds like developed enough into the game itself, the game can be easy but that depends on you as player to make it easy, if your not updating your gear or unlocking WHM, or doing your WHM Class then it's not the game fault. But don't worry too much as if your new to a MMO, some things may not seem obvious to do.

@Raidoactive, lol yeah and WAR's don't need defiance