Quote Originally Posted by Reimia View Post
http://www.finalfantasyxiv.com/etern...?lng=en&rgn=eu
* In the event both you and your partner have different promise wristlets equipped, the wristlet of lesser value (standard < gold < platnium) will take priority when making arrangements for the ceremony.

Yes they do.
No they dont.

Arrangements for the ceremony does not mean reward items. It alludes to ceremony customization and applying for a time slot. In the special items and bonuses they state the following:

Players who select the platinum plan will receive both vestments of devotion and vestments of passion.

Please, explain to us where does it say that they wont recieve any of the items they paid for if they partner up with a free wedding player.