The frustration from one side of the argument comes from the fact that a lot of people can't handle wiping on the same raid over and over. Wiping once is expected, but wiping 20 times just trying to get a single clear is absolutely demoralizing and many people cannot find a static because people have since moved on to Second or Final Coil already and many of those players care only for their own progression and the progression of their Free Company/Static. That demoralization is why people are upset, frustrated, and downright angry at the lack of assistance with T5. In fact, it seems virtually impossible for some.

The other side of the argument are comprised of people who were either fortunate enough to get through T5 without being demoralized or have the mental fortitude to push forward despite being demoralized. They are comprised of skilled and/or lucky players who were able to get through T5, but lack empathy for those who have yet to clear because, like they themselves, the people who have yet to clear have to rely on the resources they have to clear and should not receive any special treatment.

There's no real "right" or "wrong" group here. Just two groups of people with two very different, very polarized ideologies.

Earlier in this thread, I was angry--infuriated, even--that someone would even assume that it's my fault that I have yet to clear T5. And to a point, that still gets me frustrated because it's a real challenge to find a group of people who are both skilled and willing to clear the content you need to clear. But now that my mind is a lot more sound, I can see where the other side is coming from. I don't agree with it at all and I think it's a very Ayn Rand kind of stance to be taking towards a video game, but I at least understand.