The compromise is that vets get paid a bonus to wait for noobs to watch cutscenes. It's really that simple.

Some people are saying it's a compromise to take the noob bonus but still treat noobs like trash by rushing ahead and not letting them participate.

That's not a compromise. That's selfish. Earn the bonus by waiting and helping the noobs have fun.

As for the argument that "noobs are lucky to be treated like trash by vets, because otherwise their queues would be 4 hours long" ... that's up to SE. If it becomes a problem, FFXIV can increase the noob bonus to get vets to queue. If the bonus isn't large enough for you to treat noobs well, then don't play MS roulette.