Quote Originally Posted by Chezen View Post
Even when I was young, I wanted guys to look at me with respect, not hormones. If they could only look at me for what I could offer, then they were not worth my attention or time.

But I am now happily married to the only man I have ever loved, recently celebrating our 11th aniversary. I'm not sure the rest of the world can offer me that.
The right man is going to see you for who you are, and with respect no matter what you are wearing. Plus some men find one pieces sexier than bikinis. So no mater what you wear somebody will be looking at you as a sex object and hormones no matter what you are wearing. Yes some men and women look at women and assume what they are are wearing reflects who they are. These people are fools. Women should wear what ever makes them feel beautiful and confident and proud. For themselves not for anybody else. I apologize for even posting this reply it is off topic but somehow i felt it shoulod be said.