What are Your Conditions to Commend?

[ParanoidHobo]

Priority for standard 4 man stuff:
1- the healer that keeps everyone alive while also contributing to DPS
2- the tank of roughly equivalent gear that I don't have to hold back for
3- the other DPS if it seems like we're plowing through the place

I typically don't commend in 8 man stuff, I don't keep track of what everyone's doing and I'd rather not accidentally reward poor play or behavior. That said I have occasionally tossed them to people who've explained the fights in a non-dickish way or who seemed the key player in an amazing recovery after the rest of the group failed hard.

Automatic commendation rejection:
Being a massive d-bag
Healers idling the entire instance while tank sits at 90% or more then complains about how long this is taking or how bored they are
Repeatedly stomped on by every telegraph
Limit Break Guy (usually a tank for some reason, uses LB as soon as it's up regardless of what's going on)
Need rolling things that aren't upgrades (I accept that you can, but I don't respect it)
Non-tank pulling repeatedly
"GO GO GO"
"Please commend"
Random Buttons Guy (example BLM "rotation": Fire 1, Fire 3, Fire 2, Blizzard 2, Blizzard 3, Fire 1, Scathe, ????, ????, ???!!)
Probably more