As someone who is new playing a tank mainly, a lot of times the healer ends up with a commendation from healing through an impatient DPS pulling mobs before we have even cleared the pack we are currently fighting! Is this normal? As a tank coming from other games this drives me batty, and they usually don't say a word, the just keep pulling stuff even after politely asking them not to!

When the DPS players do well, one of them gets a commendation sometimes.