This needs to stop !

[Yuki_Tokita]

No, this doesn’t need to be stopped. I think a lot of you are forgetting that this is a MMORPG. The tank has the most responsibilities; He leads the group, decides when to engage, and controls the pace of the run. They are responsible for the survival of the group, so the tank should always get the last say so in how to run a dungeon rather his pug likes it or not. Tanks are already stressed out enough by their jobs. If they don’t want to honor one of your requests, please stop demanding that they play the way you want them to. They are not obligated to help you do anything.

Eventually I got fed up and told him I refused to heal him

The exact same thing happened to me as well. Halfway through Brayflox I get blackmailed with no heals by my pug. Apparently some noob on their FC wanted to complete their Infantry set. After putting up with their harassment we get to the third boss fight. I tanked Aiatar so that I was right outside the lockout zone while the boss was inside of the lockout line. I get myself locked out and watch as my entire team gets curb stumped by Aiatar. That’s how tanks should deal with these kind of people, they are annoying to no end.