I’m sorry, but saying that this is not a problem of the players but the developers is just pointing the finger to someone else. The players have an equal share of the blame in this. SE provided the tools, but it’s they players that determine the way they want to (ab)use the system.
I mean, you have the option to skip the cutscenes, but you are not required to do so. You also have the option to wait for other to get ready before taking off, but you are not required to do so. This is and will be a lose-lose situation for both camps. Neither camp can force the other to do things their way.
We are playing together, so you come to an agreement together before issuing a vote kick.
But, this goes way beyond just being kicked for watching cutscenes. I was in a CM last night where a Warrior asked at the start of the dungeon if there was something he needed to know, because he was new in CM.
The response he got was “Not really” and then the party took off, pulling the mobs at the searchlights. Literally no one was talking to the new guy to prepare him for what was expected of him. I was one of the healers at the time and i said to the new tank that the other tank will tell him what to tank.
Well… The other, experienced tank, said nothing what so ever. Not a single word. This is not how you play “together”. So, in order to help the guy out, i waited for him to be ready and have him follow me around, while giving tips what he should look for, when adds would pop, etc.
The only time we got a response from someone else in the party was when i told the new tank to pull something, where i got called back with the reply “No, don’t.” followed up after a few seconds with “Now do.” because they were skipping mechanics.
If you want a new guy to run a dungeon the way you want to, you talk to them. You don’t just say nothing and expect them to flawlessly do things your way, or kick them they are not doing things “your way”. Even if you have run the dungeon 100x or more.
Yes, everyone has their own playstyle, but i can’t call this “playing the game” anymore.
Players in general don’t interact with other players, next to saying “Hi” at the beginning of the dungeon followed by a “Thanks for the party” at the end, hoping that it will give them a commendation. I mean, you can consider yourself lucky if the party waits until you have buffed them with Protect and Stoneskin/Adloquium…
We are just running content like lemmings, running towards the goal, hoping we don’t fall to our deaths.