with this mindset the future looks dim

[Suniva]

.. i know some new people are like you tell them advise they get mad ..

When have I gotten mad? I am not mad here.
And yes, DF IS made for EVERYONE. You have to be prepared to encounter ALL sorts of people, nice ones, jerks, eltists, hardcores, EVERYONE. Expecting everyone of them to cater to YOUR needs, is no better than them expecting everyone to cater to theirs. And each run is going to be different. Different gear levels can mean different strategies for certain fights. Communication is key. There is a lot more nerd raging than there is actual communication in dungeons. Another problem. But -shrug- It is like this in every MMO. People stand arguing for one side or the other, and not even acknowledging the middle...It is lonely in the middle.
-whimper-