Ethics and Manners for FF14

[Mikita]

Appreciated! I also respect anyone who can just be kind for the sake of being kind... not because they expect something. Maybe that is whats wrong with our community? Too many people expecting something back for being kind... not enough people willing to be kind just to do it... but I don't honesty know... for the most party my community on my server is very nice.

One of the biggest pitfalls we can fall into both in FFXIV and in real life, is when we place our own expectations of what is "right" onto other people.

Like you, it's not rare for me to be out gathering, see someone in trouble, and switch to Conjurer to heal and buff them. I try not to expect anything in return -- and even though people sometimes ignore me, I won't let it stop me from trying. A "thank you" or bow is a nice bonus. ^^

Aren't you the one I had the long convo with on a thread, I believe so! You were very kind, I'd love to talk with you more!

We exchanged a few messages in the "Despite its flaws, i like this game a lot" thread.

I'm not so active on this forum now, but I just followed you on the Lodestone. ^^