As an aside, I always try to use my tank "power" for good. If I see the new player alert on dungeons even I have run 100 times. I will offer that person the option of whether they want to do a straight run, or get all the loot. I even go as far as to ask whether they want to fight the bosses blind, or get some advice. I run all my dungeons this way. I guess I would like the same consideration in return. But maybe I am expecting way too much from most.