What with the short fuses?

[Kaelk]

In every MMO I've played, the tank is the first to have blame placed on them in random groups, I know, I've always mained a tank.. Next is the healer, then the DPS that keeps dying or taking too much damage, and down the list it goes.

If people would be more open to the help given to them, and the people giving suggestion/help, a little more tactful in their presentation, dungeons would be a different place, but people too often jump straight to accusation and anger.

A conversation that should be;

Player A: So I see you are using Fast->Riot Blade, it would be more beneficial to use Fast Blade->Savage Blade->Rage of Halone, as well as throwing a Flash in from time to time, that way the healer won't pull aggro as often.
Player B: Oh, I'll give that a try.

Tends to be;

Player A: Hey, don't use Riot Blade and use Flash idiot!
Player B: Don't tell me how to play my class!

[NintenPyjak64]

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There's also:

Player A: Hey Tank, I'm noticing you're using Riot Blade more then Savage Blade. Would you mind switching so you don't lose agro?
Player B: Don't tell me how to do my job!

Even if you say things in the nicest way possible it could sometimes be interpreted as an attack on them

[jars]

because to you this is your first time grouping with them, not the first time they have done the fight. imagine you had tried to do a fight 20+ times without success because people keep making the same mistakes. you would get frustrated too.