What with the short fuses?

[Foo01]

What is with all the impatience and short fuses? Why go off on people and start yelling at them?

I know it was just Ifrit HM, not all that hard, but if you got new SMNs who don't know how to properly use the LB on the nails... so what? A couple more wipes and they will probably get it right?

I was the healer and the tanks had to sort out who was going to be the main tank, and there was the lancer that can't dodge worth a darn, and wasted the LB once, but seriously, why would anyone go off on the tanks and accuse them of getting people killed, when it is so obvious everyone is wiping because the nails were not down in time?

Well of course people go off on the tank, and unfairly this time, and surely enough the tanks will bail. And then the other healer leaves, so well guess what, taking that frustration out on other players isn't going to work.

[DoctorPepper]

What is with all the impatience and short fuses? Why go off on people and start yelling at them?

I know it was just Ifrit HM, not all that hard, but if you got new SMNs who don't know how to properly use the LB on the nails... so what? A couple more wipes and they will probably get it right?

One word.. entitlement. People seem to think they're special and that it's acceptable to treat people they don't know with disrespect for next to no reason. Heaven forbid you waste a few minutes of their time, it's so precious you know.

[Otoha]

One word.. entitlement. People seem to think they're special and that it's acceptable to treat people they don't know with disrespect for next to no reason. Heaven forbid you waste a few minutes of their time, it's so precious you know.

I think the one word you were looking for is "grind".

People dont have patience because of the fact they have to do this crap over and over and the slightest mistakes most of the time slow this grind even more.

Blame the way the content is, not the players for having to put up with it.

[DoctorPepper]

I think the one word you were looking for is "grind".

People dont have patience because of the fact they have to do this crap over and over and the slightest mistakes most of the time slow this grind even more.

Blame the way the content is, not the players for having to put up with it.

Awwww, people have to do something more than once.

I'm sorry but having to grind something does not excuse a poor attitude. People choose how they act, the game does not choose it for them. If you're not capable of being polite then be quiet or if you have a huge problem with the people you're playing with just leave. There is no reason to be rude unless somebody is showing you the same level of disrespect no matter how you try to justify it.

[Otoha]

Awwww, people have to do something more than once.

I'm sorry but having to grind something does not excuse a poor attitude. People choose how they act, the game does not choose it for them. If you're not capable of being polite then be quiet or if you have a huge problem with the people you're playing with just leave. There is no reason to be rude unless somebody is showing you the same level of disrespect no matter how you try to justify it.

Awwwww, people are being mean and hurting your feelings?

If you aren't capable of handling it then leave, don't bitch on the forums about it like it bothers you so much that some idiot on a game yelled at you.

[DoctorPepper]

Awwwww, people are being mean and hurting your feelings?

If you aren't capable of handling it then leave, don't bitch on the forums about it like it bothers you so much that some idiot on a game yelled at you.

Haha I think you're misunderstanding bud, I personally don't give a shit if people are rude or disrespectful to me. That still doesn't excuse the behavior, do you really want people to see you as a douche bag or would you rather people find your company enjoyable? I like to hope that people aren't so self centered that they only think about themselves, maybe that's a flaw in some minds but it's gotten me pretty far in life.

[Gerolan]

Awwwww, people are being mean and hurting your feelings?

If you aren't capable of handling it then leave, don't bitch on the forums about it like it bothers you so much that some idiot on a game yelled at you.

Why do you feel the need to be so rude to people? It's people like you that give MMO communities a bad name

[Foo01]

People dont have patience because of the fact they have to do this crap over and over and the slightest mistakes most of the time slow this grind even more.

The funny thing is, I asked at the very start of the run after checking the composition of the group, since there were 2 SMNs, "Is a SMN going to LB the nails?"

And there was just silence, no replies. No one wanted to explain and no one asked for explanation...

So I guess the grind is to get frustrated.... that kind of grinding....

It is NOT the content. It is the people. If the content is fine the first time around, what changed to make it bad? It is just like your commute, the road, the route is all fine, so what happened to make it bad... Same answer, it is the people, the drivers.

[Otoha]

The funny thing is, I asked at the very start of the run after checking the composition of the group, since there were 2 SMNs, "Is a SMN going to LB the nails?"

And there was just silence, no replies. No one wanted to explain and no one asked for explanation...

So I guess the grind is to get frustrated.... that kind of grinding....

It is NOT the content. It is the people. If the content is fine the first time around, what changed to make it bad? It is just like your commute, the road, the route is all fine, so what happened to make it bad... Same answer, it is the people, the drivers.

Actually its not the people in your comparison, its the fact they have to take the same road every day and people driving slow or making mistakes just like in game annoys people and makes them impatient.

[Foo01]

Actually its not the people in your comparison, its the fact they have to take the same road every day and people driving slow or making mistakes just like in game annoys people and makes them impatient.

The road and route you choose is the content. Just like people say that life is the journey. But if you want to be fixated on only the destination, especially in a game like this, then heck everything is in the way and everything is slowing you down. Heck the fastest way to get to your destination is get a hex editor and edit the bits your want to the values your want. All you need is root privileges on the server and bang you are done. Then what???

But for your own good and the good of others and the community as well, do NOT got flying off the handle and accusing people. Especially don't go pissing at the tanks even if you have some sort of half-baked reasons. And as a DPS definitely don't go pissing off the tanks or healers when you have the wrong reasons.