Quote Originally Posted by Kuwagami View Post
Somehow, I find that a bit mean. Why should she change herself ? Therr is no problem with a tanky healer as long as the job is done. and friendly people are more important than anything.
I'm not trying to be mean, but I will say this about friendly people. Friendly people stop being friendly when you can't clear content with them in MMOs. This is why a lot of people aren't very nice in pugs, and it's why many people refuse to pug content in MMOs. I know, life isn't fair. But ultimately MMOs are a team game and if you refuse to do what works best for the team such as spec for healing on a WHM it's going to be hard to make friends, especially if you refuse to join a static group or smaller FC where you can be tight with your people and play around with unorthodox builds. You won't make many friends if you go into a pug instance as a WHM with 30 VIT + VIT gear and confuse the people who are just there trying to clear the stupid fight.