I understand what Ispano is saying. I've been in dungeons where acn/smn had tank pets out, and I suggest using Emerald Carby/Ifrit/Garuda instead. That's not me being elitist or telling another person how they should play. It's a suggestion that in the long run will benefit everyone, not just that one player. And that player meeting me halfway would be to listen to my suggestion. What is so hard to understand about that? The experienced players give the advice they give because they have the experience to know what actually works.