Why I've not been playing as a Paladin lately...

[Warrlordd]

Jeesh I didn't know tanks had it so hard in this game. I just picked Gladiator cause I dont like axes all that much and im tired of playing DPS classes. In my short time here I don't get much flack though, just a few remarks here and there but no biggy. im learning as i go!

Then there's this one time, ull lose one add thats gonna die in a second anyway and you're gonna get flamed! we all know its true

[Steffie]

Then there's this one time, ull lose one add thats gonna die in a second anyway and you're gonna get flamed! we all know its true

I got called noob tank by a MNK who i seem to be spamming only Bootshine + Twin snake + Demolish combo over over again because i stopped attacking that add who is going to die in 1 or 2 hits. I find these situation funny, and if i am feeling evil, intentionally letting the adds aggro him and watch him panick.

friendly conversation in a dungeon has worked wonders for me.

I find this very true, people seem to blame you less if you have a bit of conversations beforehand. Like if you accidentally over pulled a bit and barely made through it. Just mention something like my bad after the encounter and continue on.