There's two general ways you can approach the 458 acc set for Monks:

'Strict weights':

Allagan Belt
Allagan Boots
Myth Bracelet
Myth Chest
EX Titan Earring Striking
Myth Gloves
Allagan Helm
Myth Leggings
Myth Necklace
Allagan Ring Striking
Allagan Ring Maiming
Allagan Weapon

And "I don't like SS as much":

Allagan Belt
Allagan Boots
Allagan Bracelet Maiming
Allagan Chest
Allagan Earring Maiming
Myth Gloves
Allagan Helm
Myth Leggings
Allagan Necklace Maiming
Allagan Ring Striking
Allagan Ring Maiming
Allagan Weapon

We're talking less than 1% DPS difference, but the latter set pushes your TP less.