This just happened to me in DF group for EX guaruda. I watched the video like 3 times. I wanted some actual in-game experience and figured a DF group wouldn't be looking for experts. I even asked for tips and told everyone I was new. I got accused on buying my char since I didn't have Defiance on. OMG I forgot defiance! I must have bought my char! :O Then I got vote-kicked cause the healers died while fighting plumes. I guess that was my fault somehow. Getting real sick of your shit, XIV Community.