On a higher level note, every time people are not committed to what they're doing it can potentially become a nightmare. Some fights are taxing on MP, per se, WHMs have a lot to keep a keen eye on. Why making it harder on the whole group by not paying attention? I'm not talking about 'watching video guides to be ready' i do not believe a video guide will make you proficient, you need to live the fight and yes, potentially die through it to master it later. it's all good to me
But try to play at the best of your ability. Be there. Be ready. Have items in case sh*t hits the Tornadoes
don't just assume you'll be ok cause the tank will hold hate and the healers will keep you up while you zone out. I would never allow myself to waste people's time like that