Why are you not a tank?

[Rochetm]

The problem with tank classes in most MMOs is that it can often feel more like you're fighting your party than the actual mobs. For both tanks and healers, when other people aren't doing their jobs correctly, you end up picking up the slack.

FFXIV feels the an extreme version of this. I have spent almost a decade tanking in many MMOs and loved it. I hate it in this game... Started hating it on titan(story) when my job was to stand there and watch everyone die.