Thank You for the responses . I will try clicking off the regen suggestion. But as I am reading all the responses all I see is,

This spell is generating aggro that one is generating aggro . Use this and not that ect.
So yes some of the spells healers are casting creates to much aggro .

Then why did SE give me a spell that creates way to much hate? It seems that it is a lot of guess work at this point.

All I am suggesting is SE take a close look at healer aggro and adjust it accordingly