There's only so much patience you can have when one person just is not getting it and the fight hangs on that one person playing properly.

Did a Garuda HM last night and the OT wiped the healers to his add every single time. His gear was AF/low quality AH stuff so he couldn't hold hate on the boss, or knew the movement pattern. After 6 tries of wiping to the add the first time, I left.

Next group I joined, he's back in it and I tell the group up front, "This guy hasn't watched any videos, doesn't understand the fight, and wiped us to the adds the first time every time. I'm sorry, but I'm leaving" and left.

Call me a d.bag, that's fine, but most noobly people like that (white ah weapons, etc) will offload everything on other people.

Know what? The first HM kills a month ago were done by tanks with 45, 4800 hp, healers with 3k, etc etc, but the difference was, that was the best they could have, while grinding away at hard modes, not whatever cheap crap that their job could wear that they found on the AH.

Paladin is my main. My white mage accidentally has 3300 hp. I have no pity for someone trying to do a hard mode with 2900 hp. Make some friends, grind some dungeons, earn it.