How bad are we getting as humans were people cannot even show kindness anymore let alone in a game designed to be about cooperative gameplay and banding together. now everything is just "me, me me, what i want, to hell with your needs/wants!"

I am actually getting scared now, even games with online community are becoming social nightmares. people say "just find that good FC/freinds" well, for some of us that is quite difficult when trying to weed through the massive amount of bad eggs.

The trouble is the balance, i don't want that happy go lucky player who loves to have fun but sucks horribly at the game and is wiping on normal ifrit for example. but i also don't want that pro gamer who has mad skills but the moment you display human error you will never hear the end of it. The latter of which is the most common.