Whether its the group makeup, or someone being a tool, I always offer to leave first, I'm in no rush, to be honest I do my HM ifrits before bed or work, so it's kinda a last minute thing of "oh well, I'll leave so you guys don't have to wait on queue, good luck" from that I actually see a few genuine thank yous so hey if it calms people down even better

I've yet gotten a chance to do it without a BLM/SUM because the one time I've gotten the make up, the stunner tank decided to be a tool and not stun, and burn the LB on Shield Wall before the fight even got going. Which is a shame, I'd like to see it happen.