This is why the community/DF is so terrible.

[JayvirDeforte]

Learn to be thick-skinned. The world is full of these people, it's not just the game. She should have just left and re-queued after 15 minutes. No one is forcing her to stay with that group

[Zantetsuken]

Learn to be thick-skinned. The world is full of these people, it's not just the game. She should have just left and re-queued after 15 minutes. No one is forcing her to stay with that group

I agree - she should have left.

But that doesn't change the fact that DF is virtually useless for players who want to actually enjoy the game. Her case is practically the norm for certain types of content.

Not working as intended, I'd say.

[Conkers]

It is no different to most other MMO communities these days, WoW has basically wrecked the genre by removing most meaningful "massively multiplayer" aspects, setting the level of MMOs to faceroll, and creating a playerbase that largely consists of a bunch of idiots playing for shinies first and anything else like gameplay, social interaction, challenge, storyline, etc a very, very distant second.

Ironically the game with the best community, is also the one that gives the most opportunity for asshats to wreck havoc, but yet it remains the best because it is also a game that virtually forces people to interact & co-operate in a meaningful way (like MMOs used to), is not the dumbed down faceroll rubbish most MMO have become, actually has consequences and gives the players the tools to police themselves. (EVE Online, by the way)

[rabbitzero]

I agree - she should have left.

But that doesn't change the fact that DF is virtually useless for players who want to actually enjoy the game. Her case is practically the norm for certain types of content.

Not working as intended, I'd say.

I have to disagree on both.

1) she should have just basically gone afk. They've said it's not reportable, she would have gotten credit, and they would get to find out if they are as leet as they think they were without a healer. Normally, i say no to afk, but when abuse is dropped on people, they deserve an afk taking a spot.

2) While i've had some bad DF runs, i've had worse in games without them, and have had some great runs here in DF. Ran last story dungeon the other day, and all but two of us were new. Us new ones said at the start to watch cutscenes if they want, and let the new people learn on their own except to help after a wipe (the boss where you have to run in, then right back out), and it was polite and helpful. Been in ones that also wiped on normal primals close to a dozen times, and we ended up beating it, no rages, nothing.

I do agree the worst behavior seems to be coming from those who have gotten more end gear or runs or whatever. When i see someone with a relic or higher, and full DL, i rarely see them behave well. Especially in lower content like 10-20 fates, or starter dungeons.

[GinTama]

I agree - she should have left.

But that doesn't change the fact that DF is virtually useless for players who want to actually enjoy the game. Her case is practically the norm for certain types of content.

Not working as intended, I'd say.

Since DF was never meant to be the sole tool to get into party content I think its working as intended. SE has no control over douche bags. But hey coming 2.1 we get a party grouping tool beside DF.

[Toranja]

Learn to be thick-skinned. The world is full of these people, it's not just the game. She should have just left and re-queued after 15 minutes. No one is forcing her to stay with that group

No. Learning to accept the vile behaviour is the first step to keep things as they are. Things need to be better.

[ispano]

No. Learning to accept the vile behaviour is the first step to keep things as they are. Things need to be better.

Being thick skinned and accepting the behavior are not the same thing.

[Tupsi]

Being thick skinned and accepting the behavior are not the same thing.

It is pretty much - Thick skinned means you don't let stuff bother you, which is the same as accepting the behavior because "it doesn't bother you" and if you speak out against it or want something to change you get told "grow thicker skin."

[ispano]

It is pretty much - Thick skinned means you don't let stuff bother you, which is the same as accepting the behavior because "it doesn't bother you" and if you speak out against it or want something to change you get told "grow thicker skin."

Except it's not.

http://www.self.com/blogs/flash/2013...cker-skin.html

Accepting the behavior means you think it's ok. Means it's acceptable to you. Here's the thing, just because you don't accept the behavior, doesn't mean you can change the behavior of that person. So you need thick skin to prevent it from causing problems with yourself. Doesn't mean you accept it in the slightest.

[Vinta]

Learn to be thick-skinned. The world is full of these people, it's not just the game. She should have just left and re-queued after 15 minutes. No one is forcing her to stay with that group

That shouldn't be an excuse in their favor. We should not learn to be thick-skinned, we should be enforcing that this behavior is not a good thing.