well i figured were they are bashing tanks for not doing there jobs and holding the aggro and the healer leaves for or the tank leaves. i had a group were i tanked really great when no pets like the carbuncle were out. then i had another group were someone had the carbuncle out and i could not hold the aggro i asked him to put it up and he told me i could not do my job as the tank so yes i left but when u cant get to the first boss as constant wipes and also i got fed up once were i had to constantly run stone vigil i told one group what to do in the second boss fight and i marked, told them what to do stay out of the tornado and they just ingnored me. then trying to get to last boss cause i was trying to avoid a lot of the monsters but i had idiots pulling everything to me and i was overwhelmed and i had the healer tell me to do better i said stop pulling crap need to do this by logic