If I'm in a FATE solo, I'll rarely heal anyone. The exception is if its a boss and there's a tank, then I'll make sure they don't die. But random dps running around? I will sometimes if I notice they're one hit away from death, but if I only heal I get tons of stuff hitting me and nobody tries to get them off me. Not only that, I'm lucky to get a bronze so I usually stick to dps on my WHM or switch to SMN if I'm trying to level up my SCH. I wish they'd do something about it so I can heal all the time.

I'm assuming you were in a party, so yea they really should have healed. Most of the time, when I'm in a party with other healers they never heal...or rez...ever. I'm pretty nice so I usually stay behind to rez dead people, of course when I die I have to return lol.