The simple solution to this is do not pug. Spam for like minded individuals and make groups. With out speedruns DF AK groups will make you hate your life more often than not. Castrum may become an option now but if you get in a group with people who want to watch every cutscene you'll find it miserable to farm too. Before the flaming starts yes yes I know they have every right to watch the cutscenes. But I personally feel its rude especially since you can watch them in inn.