Ok hey ! So I linked my SE + PSN and as you guys said, didn't ask me for a Beta code. It listed my ONE SE account and my ONE PSN and asked "link these" so hopefully it's exactly what I wanted to do.

Now the PS3 launcher looks JUST like the PC launcher, and it's updating/dl the game. 145 mins and rising on the timer, lol. I have RR Lightning (60++ mbps) and only getting 1.17 for the dl.. oh I remember the 6 hr dl's on XI...

Thanks for your info guys, crossing fingers that this all works and that on PS3 I will be logging into the exact same stuff/characters. :O