Respect for others opinions, and willing to step in there when someone needs help. However, going overboard doesn't help either.

Was a doormat, and I refuse to be one come ARR.

But showing heart and care for your teammates, as well as giving it all you have to ensure that everyone has FUN are the redeeming qualities of an actual "community" member. It's not getting the job done so much as having fantastic memories when achieving your goals.