The devs are doin' it, let's join in^^

[HiirNoivl]

I'm pretty confident that a lot of us here hesitated quite a bit before posting. Other people might think you look good, but if you are self-conscious enough, that doesn't matter. I had a pretty hard time building up the courage to post, tbh. In any case, this isn't a beauty contest so I feel that everyone should try to build up that courage too! We're all friendly in here.

People are mean... and also creepy. So even if some girls look like hot stuff they may not post to avoid getting harrassed in game.

Not me though, I look just ugly enough to get ignored by the pervs. XD

[Radacci]

People are mean... and also creepy. So even if some girls look like hot stuff they may not post to avoid getting harrassed in game.

Not me though, I look just ugly enough to get ignored by the pervs. XD

MMM, i RPd as a female in WoW, and some guy comes up and flirt with me, and asks for my name...so i gave it, and he ran off, and called me Fucking Faggot...well wasn't that nice?
I know girls have to take tonnes of shit from creepy guys that have a bloated ego, the size of Meteor; and i know some had to delete their accounts, cause creepy guys just won't let them be.
So...STOP BEING CREEPY GUYS, YOU CREEPY GUYS!

This would explain the beards. lol

now i just wonder where guys without beards, come from

[Kisa]

People are mean... and also creepy. So even if some girls look like hot stuff they may not post to avoid getting harrassed in game.

Pretty much this. :/
I am not hot stuff but I've been harassed everyday I played FFXIV since it first started. I am not exaggerating either. Literally. Everyday. Having a hard time believing it's only a minority of guys that are creepy.
I don't plan on joining another linkshell after the crap I went through. ^^

Needs more kitty to soothe the soul.

[Rowyne]

Pretty much this. :/
I am not hot stuff but I've been harassed everyday I played FFXIV since it first started. I am not exaggerating either. Literally. Everyday. Having a hard time believing it's only a minority of guys that are creepy.
I don't plan on joining another linkshell after the crap I went through. ^^

Kisa, I don't know if you're dead set on sticking with your server, but if you're open to transferring, I run a mature family-style linkshell on Balmung (details are in my signature). Respecting your linkshell mates, respecting your fellow players, and no cheating are really the only three rules we have, but they are strictly enforced (you can find them posted right on our website). Rude or offensive behavior, especially between linkshell mates, is simply not tolerated.

I created Kindred after I couldn't find a linkshell I was comfortable with in FFXI. I was a woman in my late 20s and had no more patience for disrespect, oral feces, and internet stalkers. I recreated Kindred in FFXIV with the same values.

Stop by our site sometime and we'll see if we can't find you a home you're comfortable with.

Awww Rowyne, you are so sweet!! Haha I'm glad you like my hair, my hair likes you too <3 lol. I hope you have a wonderful weekend!!

You're very pretty, Nix! Don't ever let anyone tell you differently.

[Nix]

snipsnipsnip

/bluuush!

The more you post, the more I like you haha You're one of the few sweet people here on forums (I'm slowly working on a way to kidnap you all and stick you in my pocket!)

Keep being awesome Rowyne, you're bloody fantastic!!

[Vilhem]

/bluuush!

The more you post, the more I like you haha You're one of the few sweet people here on forums (I'm slowly working on a way to kidnap you all and stick you in my pocket!)

Keep being awesome Rowyne, you're bloody fantastic!!

Nixxeh's abandoned meh! ;-;

[Rowyne]

/bluuush!

The more you post, the more I like you haha You're one of the few sweet people here on forums (I'm slowly working on a way to kidnap you all and stick you in my pocket!)

Keep being awesome Rowyne, you're bloody fantastic!!

Aww! So nice to hear things like this amidst the sea of negativity that can rise and swell over these forums. I think there needs to be more sweetness. Glad I could help contribute.

Nixxeh's abandoned meh! ;-;

No wai! I share!