Nobody, especially me ever said time = skill, its you having virtually no time to play and hate the fact that someone might be better geared than you or have access to something you dont.
Honestly though, by the sound of the updates otw the game is becomming more the way the gimps want it.
This is sad though, the majority of casuals barely play final fantasy, they just look for the newest/easiest game that can be beat in a few months and enjoy doing it in 5yrs. Hardcore gamers specifically those of us on final fantasy have been life-long fans of Square Enix made games and been since FF1. The fact that SE would consider/try (abyssea) to leave us behind is kinda sad.
Though if/when the day comes when an easier game comes out and all the casuals/12yr olds/soccer moms who were brought into gameing from the wii leave FF14 for the new fad and find themselves with no more dedicated fan base, we will have our laugh.
Imagine a world where all the hard-core gamers (generally leaders/members of massive HNM's that play non-stop to be the best no-longer have something as simple as a game as an outlet) lose this outlet... we will rule your rl.
(I had fun typeing some of this)