Something important to remember Efreet, Paladin is one of those jobs where you can gear many different ways and still be effective.

Molly favors stacking Enmity and Strength whereas I favor Enmity and HP. Others till favor HP and DEF or Enmity and DEF. The important thing to note is that these each work for us and our playstyles, and you should experiment to find which one you favor.