You think?

[RedLolly]

pale enough to were if i go out for about 30mins during a sunny day i turn into a lobster without being under an umberlla and lots of sunscreen which ive had happan when i went to a concert

Albinism?

They do have snow white skin tones, but you'd need to be a Raen Au Ra, Moon Keeper Miqo'te, or Duskwight Elezen to have access to those extremely pale skin tones. Since you play an Au Ra, if you wanted that, the first option in the section of the greener skin tones is actually a tone that perfectly matches the white scale color. It's my favorite for the race, in fact. I can take a photo if you want to see.

Not sure if it would work for you since you love the black and violet contras, but you might like it!