I've posted this before but my proposition was making an "inn room" that's similar to the FC rooms you can have, though every house gets one regardless if its FC or personal. Put a bed in there, the glamour dresser, and some other stuff.

Not sure how point #4 is nessasary, considering that you can get an apartment and use the chocobo stable there? But another option would be fine.

Everything else I agree with.