I agree with you that it is annoying, sometimes even toxic. Because in fl mnk can just lb you then kick you back into their alliance. Pretty much 100% death. It is very personal. It is like a 'I pick you to die moment'
Meteo drive just feels personal because it is a single target lb... It animation lock you but you can still receive healing. If you didn't die in that 3 sec window you can guard into recuperate, shield or some movement ability..
You are right it annoys me as well. But I do remember once a great man told me that, how ones feeling about an lb is just subjective...