No one is being toxic to you.
What people are asking is why should the game to be made easier for people? No one is asking you to knock it out first try in fact I have encouraged people to try over and over again and die in order to learn. I am very patient in game and have never kicked anyone for learning. I am frustrated because people here don't seem to want to die and adjust they instead want the game made easier. This content is 3 days old it isn't meant to be face rolled in one pull and even the best players die and work around it without just saying they have a disability and therefore cannot overcome this.
I have said many times that no one is born a God gamer and everyone dies but an easy mode is not the solution because at its core this is what FFXIV combat is and it shouldn't have to be stripped down when after a few tries this won't be a problem anymore.
I have tried to be kind but people just want to call me abelist and dismiss me because I'm not part of your echo chamber.
I don't have a static or an FC I do all content including savage and ultimate in PF and I don't mind people learning or dying hell I do it all the time! Do you know how many times I've messed up a tank mechanic and wiped the party even in ultimate like 14 minutes in? All I ask is for people to try and overcome something before asking for a nerf