League levels of toxic behavour in game.

[ChrysOCE]

Side note: Tanks would feel more confident to pull if they weren't seeing their health drop to less than 20% with a grudging Regen being tossed their way, so the healer can fling a few more rocks.

FFXIV has a big dissonance problem with its role culture, where tanks are almost the only ones expected to adhere to their role.

Red DPS get to pull so the tank will die, because the Green DPS doesn't think their primary job is to heal, and despite what we might wish in perfect fantasy world, the Blue DPS isnt invincible.

Yes, that must be why tanks are pretty much indestructible in later levels and there are constant complaints about tanks soloing bosses, while everyone else looks on. Dissonance indeed.