Quote Originally Posted by BayanKha View Post
"hey, if we pick one side to feed, we can end it faster".
This is the big one; despite your intentions, someone can very easily read this as wanting to grief if they're not in any kind of jovial mood and just want to play a match.

Can't really say I condone or condemn here, just that it's probably wiser in a more competitive environment to not joke about deciding to lose. Text can't exactly convey the light-hearted tone you were going for and it's easy for it to be misread.