Sometimes its a good thing to have "toxicity" and other negative traits

[Basteala]

You are wrong, but not for the reasons you're probably going to think I'm going to say.

Toxicity is never acceptable. However, being assertive has been misidentified as toxicity for too long. People should be able to politely, but firmly, state the facts and provide advice if a group is very obviously struggling.

The key word is politely. It becomes toxic once that word goes away.

[Gurgeh]

I'm a law abiding, never break the speed limit kind of person. I'm not always a ray of sunshine, but I try to make sure I never spoil a sprouts fun with my jaded outlook. I can be very robust but only when I think people have consented to such an exchange in the first place.
However, I am kind of bored at the moment.
Toxicity?
hmmm?
Maybe I'll break bad and start pushing it. I can't clear Chaotic, and I can't be assed to farm an Ex mount, but maybe I can farm for an encounter in a jail/dungeon with a DM?
"Step on me Yoshi-Pee! I've been a bad Lala, uwu ! :3 "

[Gunz_Zbestest]

Actually a world where we can be toxic to deadweights sounds fantastic

Inside each statement a person makes is a small shadow of projection. Make sure that you believe in your own self worth before you go projecting it onto others, truth teller.

[Gunz_Zbestest]

NOOOOOOOO chloe NOOOOOOO come back

Why do I get max creep vibes from this?

[Nero-Voidstails]

You are wrong, but not for the reasons you're probably going to think I'm going to say.

Toxicity is never acceptable. However, being assertive has been misidentified as toxicity for too long. People should be able to politely, but firmly, state the facts and provide advice if a group is very obviously struggling.

The key word is politely. It becomes toxic once that word goes away.

the problem nowdays is most people see criticism,advice or even just feed back as basic toxicity when it's just well a normal thing even in real world well as long as it is politely mention. but nowdays everyone is easily hurt of you think slightly differently you are toxic and should get permanently banned that's what is going on ff14 is going more woke at least in NA and it's crazy how someone cannot say anything or even missgender someone.

I have been reported in a RP for using the word lady to a cat girl she used crime to look like a male I was sent to the GMs jail for that but talking things. like this is being bad I meet player that play male character but use crime to be seen as female or the other way around and guess the worst part. the person NOT breaking ToS is I'm the wrong and are always called toxic if not outright banned from location.

[Gunz_Zbestest]

Either red thunder is part of your dissociative identity disorder or he has a mental health disorder fetishization.

[Basteala]

the problem nowdays is most people see criticism,advice or even just feed back as basic toxicity when it's just well a normal thing even in real world well as long as it is politely mention. but nowdays everyone is easily hurt of you think slightly differently you are toxic and should get permanently banned that's what is going on ff14 is going more woke at least in NA and it's crazy how someone cannot say anything or even missgender someone.

I have been reported in a RP for using the word lady to a cat girl she used crime to look like a male I was sent to the GMs jail for that but talking things. like this is being bad I meet player that play male character but use crime to be seen as female or the other way around and guess the worst part. the person NOT breaking ToS is I'm the wrong and are always called toxic if not outright banned from location.

I absolutely agree. I'm just saying we need to less embrace toxicity and more correctly identify it.

Also crimes or not I've definitely seen people use the female model with Breasts at 0 to make a femboy. People getting offended over that are mind numbingly stupid, though. Seriously, people are getting pissed over assuming gender when they fucking chose it (where the game is concerned)? What a world.

[AvoSturmfaust]

Had today a good example, did Raid Roulette, had a Whitemage which literally pressed 1 Button every 10s (Glad you can see Castbars in the Groupmenu) i instantly asked him if he can stop leeching and start pressing more buttons then one in 10s(which in final with these crybabys counts already as toxic), then i vote kicked him, sorry but toxicity is completly fine, people wasting your time and you have to accept it? nu uh, will not happen

[Nero-Voidstails]

I absolutely agree. I'm just saying we need to less embrace toxicity and more correctly identify it.

Also crimes or not I've definitely seen people use the female model with Breasts at 0 to make a femboy. People getting offended over that are mind numbingly stupid, though. Seriously, people are getting pissed over assuming gender when they fucking chose it (where the game is concerned)? What a world.

oh what annoy me is the breast slider doesn't go smaller for that but I have seen bad in that regard like huge Viera with big breast using crime to be a male. that's my problem sadly

[Nero-Voidstails]

Had today a good example, did Raid Roulette, had a Whitemage which literally pressed 1 Button every 10s (Glad you can see Castbars in the Groupmenu) i instantly asked him if he can stop leeching and start pressing more buttons then one in 10s(which in final with these crybabys counts already as toxic), then i vote kicked him, sorry but toxicity is completly fine, people wasting your time and you have to accept it? nu uh, will not happen

sadly you also play a multiplayer games the whm could have outside reason to do. I don't say the person have a reason but could have and some doesn't want others to know sadly. And your time is no one else problem you play a online game with others player YOUR TIME isn't something other people should worry about yes it fun when everyone do what should be done yes. But remember I have played and still play with some people who have hands disability and struggles to do stuff like big pulls moving out of some aoes. People often bully them or even tell them to go watch YouTube video of 14 and that they shouldn't be playing because PEOPLE TIME matters more then someone enjoyment. so a person could have a reason to do some action that you might not like small pulls not moving out of aoes or even going afk sometime you never knows. just be mindful of others feeling you aren't alone and if you que for something it's because you accept that you might spend more time in a instances.