Tell me stories when a mentor hurt you.

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Another example, since you want to call this griefing: Not performing the active maneuver timer in The Seat of Sacrifice. If one person doesn't click the timed maneuver, the entire raid fails.

This is false. If you fail the manoeuvre then you personally die. When I was a newbie I would be clicking that circle and it was a struggle to keep that bar filled up so I have to expect that some people will be doing the same. It's better to just spam keyboard keys, basically nullifies the difficulty of them.

Greyhawk is correct, actually.

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While inside the rift between worlds, players must perform an Active Time Maneuver to escape their fetters. To succeed, the players have 15 seconds to repeatedly click the button (or press any other button except from chat) and keep their Will of Defiance meter from dropping to 0. Note that the meter becomes easier to replenish when it is lower. So long as there's anything in the meter when the timer reaches zero, you succeed. If any player fails the event, the entire party wipes. If any players are dead when this phase starts, they will still participate and must successfully complete the Active Time Maneuver.

Additionally, that bar pretty much always stays low so you can just mash spacebar.