If this is true (and frequent suspension of auto-demolition puts that into doubt), then the dumbest thing for players to do is allow themselves to get shackled to the system. That gives Square Enix control over them.
Do I care about the system? Yes, it's why I spend a lot of time in this subforum discussing the ways it could be improved.
Am I shackled to it? Not at all. If I need to take a break from the game and lose my houses, then I lose my houses. They are just virtual items in an online game.
Having things in a game is fun but they're never so important that we should allow ourselves to make stupid decisions over them.