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    sindriiisgaming's Avatar
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    Jan 2023
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    Gridania
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    Sugar And'spice
    World
    Twintania
    Main Class
    Reaper Lv 100
    Quote Originally Posted by Elissar View Post
    Tbh i am having a rough time with FFXIV...but isn't the game itself. This game was present in some awful days of my life, in some sense, my days are better now but still not completely fine. When i log in, i just do any event that is going on and log out. No one in my friendlist talk to me and i don't talk to anyone. I just got tired of being the one person approaching and asking how they are doing. I'm afraid that someday i will stop caring about such events and just unsub permanently. I love the journey and how FFXIV changed how i deal with games but i can't keep playing while the same game reminds me of how lonely and miserable i feel like.
    It's hard making friends as a male aura. Ppl don't much talk to us for some stupid assumption. I've had ppl literally blacklist me on sight without knowing me because they had a "bad male aura experience" my advise is either hop servers or if u can't. Make an alt on another server and dc. Try to start again... or leave ur fc. Don't give up you're aura though. Not if you really like him
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    Last edited by sindriiisgaming; 12-18-2023 at 09:37 PM.

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    Tsumdere's Avatar
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    Ishgard
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    Fia Mortivault
    World
    Balmung
    Main Class
    Samurai Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by sindriiisgaming View Post
    It's hard making friends as a male aura. Ppl don't much talk to us for some stupid assumption. I've had ppl literally blacklist me on sight without knowing me because they had a "bad male aura experience" my advise is either hop servers or if u can't. Make an alt on another server and dc. Try to start again... or leave ur fc. Don't give up you're aura though. Not if you really like him
    It feels bad in the moment, but it saves you a lot of grief. You would never want to be friends with people who judge you on the race you play. They are just self-reporting that they are assholes at that point.
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    Last edited by Tsumdere; 12-19-2023 at 04:31 AM. Reason: i never know how to spell