WoL prompt: What was the hardest thing for them to do?

[Enkidoh]

Learning to forgive the Garleans for the atrocities commited against Enki's homeland (ala Ala Mhigo), and seeing past the Ivory Standard and learning to seperate the terms 'Imperial' and 'Garlean', helped by Cid and the Ironworks, and accordingly act more concilatory towards the Empire, Garlemald and it's people, instead of responding to them belligerently.

And the realisation in EW that Garlemald and Ala Mhigo were really not that different - both nations of people shunned or harrassed by their surrounding nations that learned to adapt and thrive in a hostile environment by making the best of the resources provided, and both had a technological edge (apparently an old bit of lore stated Ala Mhigo was "the most technologically advanced of the six Eorzean city states"), and both had been basically ruined by civil strife leading to it's destruction, finally shook her out of her ignorant "the only good Garlean is a dead Garlean", and that she was determined to make Eorzea filled with lots of "good Garleans" belief - a rather stupid and bloodthirsty attitude that she's now deeply ashamed and embarrased of and wants to make amends for.

Except Zenos. Even at the end to her he was just a rabid monster that needed to be put down for everyone's benefit...