"If you dont raid you arent playing the game" was said by no one except yourself... quoting... the voices in your head? What is it with you and putting words in other people's mouths?
The comment you responded to also mentioned dungeons and trials. I don't know why you ignore that. Can every bit of FFXIV be lackluster because it has (arguably) so many different things to do?
What should count? Chocoboracing which hasn't been updated since forever? Island Sanctuary and its boringness and weak updates? The lackluster new deepdungeon? Criterion and Variant dungeons? (We know how those went)